↓ Spence Porter: “Since I’m a therapist, I’ll stick to what I know about, individual relationships. I love what Thich Nhat Hanh says, that each side has to be very clear what the differences are, really clarifying what each side knows, believes, feels, what their convictions are. Like in therapy, cultivating curiosity about the other’s convictions, and exploring where you’re willing to change, what’s sacred and what’s just a residue of behavioral habit. Often what we’d like to change in our partner is something they’d like to change in themselves. Instead of a blame game, you’re allies in making changes.” |
↓ Glender Paniagua: “You mean how to rebuild trust? By showing them who you are. If you have an argument with me, you forget who I am. Show yourself, re-prove yourself to rebuild trust. When good things come around, they know who you are. On the global level, let’s do more trades, let’s get involved with each other.” |
↓ Justina Okonkwo: “Talking to both sides. When you fight you think bad of your enemy and your enemy thinks bad of you. When you have peace you bring joy joy joy, and progress.” |
